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• Start Page
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• Favorites
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• Who Likes Me
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• Who Viewed Me

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• Messages:
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• Sparks:
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Safe Dating Tips

• Be proactive in your safety:
  Try to find out as much as you can about a person through Messages and the information in their profile. You need to be assertive and trust your instincts. If you think something is not quite right about a person, we think you should act on that and move on.
• Protect your identity:
  Be very careful of who you entrust with your personal information. Our message system here is a double-blind system which let's you communicate with complete anonymity. This gives you the control to decide when it is appropriate to reveal more about yourself.
• Ask for another photo:
  This is an easy way to find out more about the person you're communicating with. A given photo should match the likeness of other photos this member has posted. If it doesn't not match, or if the member refuses to send you one, we think you should move on.
• Call before you ever date:
  A phone call is the logical next step from communicating through our site. Use privacy features available by your phone provider to keep your phone number safe if possible. Never let someone pressure you into a meeting with speaking on the phone first. This is a definite sign to move on immediately.
• Meet in public:
  If you choose to meet someone, always let your friends/family know where you'll be. And let the person you're meeting know this. Always meet your date in a public place in which you are comfortable.